Business Musings: American Thanksgiving

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I don’t know how the rest of you feel, but for me, 2021 was not the year I had hoped for as the calendar turned. Because I’m an eternal optimist who can also be a raging pessimist, the way I got through 2020 was to think 2021 would be better. Lots better. As in wonderful, glorious, put-the-pandemic-behind-us marvelous.

We had vaccines, after all, and while I thought the front part of the year would be hard, the second part—well, new normal here we come!

I don’t need to tell you what happened next. Everything is in flux worldwide, and had I done my due diligence, I wouldn’t have been surprised.History teaches us that after any global event, the world sinks into some kind of major turmoil.

We’re not after the event. It continues. I’ve nearly lost family to breakthrough cases and have friends who are dealing with long Covid. We’re getting out, but I’ve had three conversations this week alone about being uncomfortable in crowds and in public.

Then there’s the political turmoil, the supply chain crisis, the inflation, the impact of all the deaths, the uncertain and strange job situation and…and…and…

You all know this.

And yet…I still wanted to write this post.

Every year, one of my blogs (which post Wednesday/Thursday) falls on American Thanksgiving. It’s one of my favorite holidays, if not my favorite. I love the feasting, the time with friends, the organized turkey trot we do that morning, making pies…you name it.

Last year, we had to share our Thanksgiving with a friend by packing food in plastic containers and carrying it to her place. No sharing at a group table. No morning run. We still had turkey and all the fixins and pie, of course, and it felt almost normal, but it wasn’t. Because—you know.

I had thought that I hadn’t written a Thanksgiving blog, but I just checked. I had. And it does reflect the time. I was looking for hope ahead, but we hadn’t reached it yet. Still, there was a glimmer, and I grabbed that.

This year, I actually feel like giving thanks. Thanks for oh, so, many things. Here’s a short list:

  • Visits with friends in person. We’ve been seeing fully vaccinated friends since April and while it felt strange at first, it’s so damn joyful I can’t express how much it means. Even if the conversation inevitably strays to the people we lost or how hard 2020 was. Still, that conversation is in person. And I must say, the entertainment value of the masks alone (my friends are mostly in the arts) is marvelous.
  • Entertainment. It continued during the pandemic, but I craved live theater. I missed going to see movies, instead of watching them at home. I hadn’t realized until the Pride Parade in October that I missed parades and spectacles too. I missed silly weird joyful fun. And, while it’s not permanently back and it’s definitely not at the level of joy that we achieved in our naïve lives pre-COVID, joy is all the sweeter now. The laughter is fresher and oh, so, lovely just because it exists again.
  • School. I went back, in part, to meet people. I saved my conversational Spanish class for in person, because I really really really hated classes on Zoom. I only took one per semester after that truncated semester in early 2020, and those classes were Spanish, which allowed me to focus on something other than death and dying while I tried to learn. But I learn best in person. I love hearing other people’s opinions and watching them deal with some of the same things I’m trying to figure out.

I love the random conversations with people I wouldn’t normally have conversations with, like the extremely enthusiastic geology major I spoke to about scheduling just last week or the kid who wants nothing more than the privilege of teaching high school math. Being on campus makes me happy, even if it makes me tired some days. I am older than my professors and as such have different needs than my colleagues. Mostly, I’m secure, because I don’t need good grades to launch my future career. That’s a different attitude than I had 40 years ago, and it truly benefits me.

  • Running/exercise. I ran or walked outside daily during the worst of the pandemic and kept it up afterwards. It really helped. But now, races are back, with all their goofy fun. From kids in costume to crappy trailheads (I’m looking at you, dry lake bed), I’m loving every minute of the organized group runs. I run with a grin on my face.

No one can see the grin on my face at my weekly Pilates class because I’m still masking up, even if most everyone else in the class isn’t. (They do set their mats very far apart, and the room has great ventilation, but still…) My back is better, I don’t have to watch some random person on YouTube telling me to contort myself into a pretzel, and I work harder in a class with other people, rather than mutter Are you kidding me? before collapsing on my mat without even trying the impossible thing the online coach wanted me to do. I can actually see the physical difference, and that’s lovely. Plus, it’s good to catch up with the casual friends I’ve met at the classes (and nice to see that they have managed to survive this terrible time…so far, anyway).

  • Publishing. I’m slowly digging my way out of the hole the Fey put me into. (See this post.) I have a lot of projects to do and I need more time to do them. I also need think-time to return to an understanding of what is happening in our industry. I plan to write year-end blogs, and I’m actually looking forward to them.

I felt like we published by rote in some ways this year, and that’s okay. It got me through. Now, though, I’m slowly feeling the need to pay attention again. I guess I’m releasing a lot of bandwidth from all the fear and doom-scrolling, and that has to be a lot healthier than constant daily anxiety about whether or not we’ll survive the week.

  • WMG Publishing. The team there, led by Allyson Longueira, have been amazing this past year. They’ve worked hard, through tough personal times, and managed to do the impossible. I’m in awe of all of them, but most particularly, I’m in awe of Allyson.
  • Other Editors. They’ve thought of me. They asked me to contribute to anthologies. One dear editor friend gave me quarterly deadlines which are both annoying (they get in the way) and inspiring (I’m writing stuff I wouldn’t normally write). I’m very lucky to be in this position, and it’s benefiting me more than I can say.
  • The Cats. They were life-savers. Not just because they encouraged me to laugh every day (especially after Angel joined us in June), but because they saved my butt on promotion. When the world was shut down, I used them to help promote, which has become a thing. I think Cheeps has his own fan club now, not that he cares.
  • Writing. It’s been up and down for me, in some ways. I wrote Ten Little Fen at the first of the year when I realized that writing was no longer fun, and that project was a huge escape for me. I just left the present and headed to a lovely little made-up world.

Then I wrote about all of the fear and anxiety in a series of mystery shorts, which got a lot of my chest. There’s more to release, but at least I got a good start.

The Fey project is as hard as I thought it would be and more complex than I expected. It continues forward. It took me a while to hit escape in the writing of that, but once I figured out what the heck I was doing, I ended up just fine. It continues, though, which is irritating and fun at the same time.

Other projects are lined up, like my friend Kevin J. Anderson says, like planes on a runway, waiting for their turn. Impatiently, in some cases. I’ll get there.

I also instituted a daily writing goal of 1K words per day. It has gotten me through some of the roughest days of the year. I had to hit my 1,000 words to continue my streak.

I’m recovering some old essential habits and I’m a lot more organized than I was before—which is lovely.

•Reading. A refuge. As always. I’m gravitating toward mystery and short stories, mostly. It’s still hard to find all the joy in romance, but I’m starting to lean that way again. It’s a process. But that daily escape into someone else’s imagination has been essential to making it through the year. Thank God there are so many great writers in the world. I’m discovering more and more of them each and every day.

  • Dean. My god, that man’s a rock. We did not plan on moving this summer and we were forced into it through Covid-related circumstances. We’re in a much nicer condo than we were before, and we both love it, but Dean organized us, pushed us, and got us here. I did what I could, but good Lord that man is Superman, still. He did all that while doing his amazing 70@70 challenge. I have no idea how I got not only lucky enough to be with this man, but with him for 35 years. He kept us both focused during the worst of the pandemic, managed to claw me away from doom-scrolling, and kept both of us firmly focused on the future, even when we weren’t sure what kind of future was coming.
  • You all. You let me write about Covid. You let me talk about grief. You let me ramble about projects and process. You responded with warmth and humor (and sometimes a bit of anger, which we’re all harboring right now) and you continued showing up week after week, month after month. Thank you!!!!!

As I said up top, 2021 is not the year I expected it to be. It’s been harder and sadder than I expected, and rockier than I had hoped. But it’s sooooooo much better than 2020.

I actually feel the gratitude of the season this year.

I know we’re not out of this. I suspect we have years of turmoil left, because we (the planet) are adjusting to a new normal. But I feel like we’ve found the future again. It was almost as if the future had tumbled down a mountainside, leaving us standing on the cliff-face, wondering what the hell we were supposed to do next.

We’ve turned and we’ve found a new path. We’re still not sure where it’ll take us, but we are moving again.

I am profoundly grateful for that. For you. For the season.

I hope that you have a great day today, whether or not you celebrate Thanksgiving.

Me? I’m going to feast. And be with friends. And laugh.

And eat pie.

Lots and lots of pie.

“Business Musings: American Thanksgiving,” copyright © 2021 by Kristine Kathryn Rusch. Image at the top of the blog copyright © Can Stock Photo / fahrwasser.

10 thoughts on “Business Musings: American Thanksgiving

  1. So grateful for the scientists who have made the vaccines possible and available, and who continue studying a deadly virus to protect the rest of us.

    Grateful for my writing, which though not prolific (understatement of the century), is moving along toward the resolution of the middle book in my debut trilogy in a lot fewer years than the 15 the first volume took.

    Grateful to have survived a trip to Colorado to dance, on my Airwheel S8, with my son at his wedding reception a year after his zoom wedding – people there weren’t masked! And my mobility device made the trip safely there and back in the on-board wheelchair closet (after a little work and firmness on my part).

    Grateful for our community of retirees and being able to eat with friends as often as we want (and then the masks go right back on).

    So many things to add, but mostly for survival and the chance to keep trying.

    And of course for your continuing posts. Hope you and Dean got lots of pie.

    1. Yeah…Cheeps has a real one. People send him presents and ask about him all the time. He doesn’t care. I think Gavin would care if he knew what was going on. He gets so jealous…

      And you’re right about all cats. Every single one of the beasties.

  2. I can’t begin to express how grateful I am to WMG publishing and to you and to Dean for all you have done. I absolutely adore the daily stories during the holidays. It’s so fun and such a treat – but was even more so during last year (and will be this year, too, I suspect). And the half price sales allowed me to take several classes and then to jump into The Great Challenge. I’ll echo others: I’m so inspired by you and Dean. Not to mention that I just plain love your stories.

    I do have a question about your streak! You’ve mentioned several times that you write out of order. I do as well, though not on every story. So on your streak – I’m assuming that you mean only new words. So you keep that going while “assembling” other stories/novels, right? So you’re getting new words but putting stories in order is something completely different from the 1,000 word streak, right? Some days, I feel like all I’m doing is “arranging” a story. And I’d like to focus more on new words. Do you have any thoughts or words of wisdom for balancing the two? I feel like I often “lose” a day of new words because I’m putting a story together.

  3. One of your best letters! Blessings to you my friend and fellow author and to your spouse who manages to “muddle” along. Heh! Heh! Blessing to you both!

  4. You and Dean are awesome.

    The fact I don’t always see eye-to-eye with everything you believe doesn’t change the fact that you inspire me to write better.

    Remember everything is awesome when you’re part of a team.

    Team Dean & Kris.

  5. Kris, Among other things, I’m grateful to see your name so frequently in my inbox. I don’t always have time to read your pieces, but I kn0w when I do, I will go aways thoughtful and better informed. I wish you and Dean a wonderful Thanksgiving and a holiday season filled with joy.

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